It's me that's cycling!

[Sanderika]

Cas,

My take on this....

MLC men do not do what they do not want to do.

Your H invited you for dinner because he wanted you to come over for your birthday, he wants to cook dinner for you (and daughter)he would not have asked if he was not sincere.

If this was all as cynical as you make it sound, why did he bother at all?

Another thought, maybe he went through daughter because he was afraid you would say no.

I'm thinking on the lonely bit, OW just left he is probably enjoying a little peace and quiet.

He wants daughter to spend some time with him because he misses her. I find it interesting he is initiating time with you too, reconnecting? Hmmm

In not knowing what to do...maybe just go with the flow...they have all said that these things get fixed when the LBS least expects and stops trying to.

I do know that a bad mental attitude from us will send them back miles. I've been there and that's what happened.

Keep your thoughts positive and be absolutely irresistible.

I still think he is thinking about you.....

I hope it is a splendid evening for all

(((((Hugs)))))

Sanderika