LITB:

I saw you commented on my post and wanted to come over and check you out. With so many people and so many sitch I find it hard to keep up.

I read your sitch all I can say is WOW! I have a twin! I don't know how familiar you are with my sitch but here are some similarities.

W Moved 1500 miles away already. Yours is heading that way.

MIL lives with us; actually it was my mom and her MIL.

W did 1 session with my DB coach also.

"M is indestructible" yep. I thought the same thing. We were the model of a M and we often made that comment to each other

Took her for granted

W has not been mean or vicious

OM was lurking when she first moved (child hood friend) he, I believe, is out of the pic.

Anything else?

I think that is quite a bit.

I will continue to follow your sitch but I wanted to post this after I read the first post.

I wish I would have found this website and all this info while my W was still here.

For the meantime consider another BITS at your service.

BITS