Better days are coming for ALL of us. II

[ironMan]

Hey, LIS ... just got mostly caught back up on your thread.

Ugg, .... I'm sorry to hear about the latest developments. I know what a blow that must be.

I don't think all is lost .... and that your H is still just really confused about where he is in life and what he wants. No surprise.

But, I also really understand how you feel like you're done with him. I have felt the same.

No magic here, hun. What do you want? If you want to be done, then you can be done. If you want to just live your life independent of H while he figures his out and THEN figure out if you two have a path going forward .... then do that. In any case, expecting him to get his poo in a pile anytime soon is probably unrealistic.

Sorry, LIS. Just live YOUR life. Its all you can do.