Another twist I just thought about and BTW, really good points on both sides. I sign the sep papers today and then they go to her. I should probably bite the bullet and go to the party as to not raise her ire right now. No use upsetting her at this point as I think we are both getting a decent settlement.

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M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11