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The more negative things she talks, it will only affect and jade the current thinking. Did you try telling her to look at you as a new person and this relationship as a new relationship and start from there. To go a MC. Maybe she'll be more receptive to a MC's suggestions on burying the past.

From my experience, where my W used to always keep bringing up the past and how she felt during that only led her to file for D. If she wants to work on your R, it would do a great good to leave the past demons at the door.