bit ahead of myself thinking that I should have the apology speech with my W right now.
I agree with this FOBD. I have stated as much. The time will come but not yet.
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So, here is what is bothering me. If you were the WAS and you knew that leaving is causing these unpleasant situations, why in the HELL WOULD YOU BRING THIS UP DURING CONVERSATION???
Who knows?
To Gauge a reaction?
To see what your response will be?
Because she feels it will be weird?
Truth is you have no idea and neither do I. Don't spend to much time analyzing every word or every action. It is hard not to, I know. Continue to do things to 'fix' yourself and remember to always stay pleasant and friendly; Not because it is some sort of trick but because that is who YOU are. If she enjoys talking with you then she will talk to you more.
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If I walked into a bar and punched you in the face for now reason, do you honestly think I would then bring that up weeks later in a light and friendly conversation? No, no way in hell! I mean, what does she want me to say? "Yes, the house looks awful and I cried in the middle of the living room floor where the couch used to be after you left!!" Or, maybe, "Yes, Mardi Gras is going to suck *ss and I will be completely lonely and lost considering you will be no where around." What is she fishing for here???
Does the term "act as if" mean anything to you. It should!
By the way if you walked into a bar and punch some dude in the face and then approach him to talk a few weeks later I would hope the dude returns the favor before you have a chance to speak.
