Guilty. We've had a few heated arguments, and yes voices were raised. They aren't as bad as before the bomb or don't have the same effect on us, but we've had them.
I kinda consider them par for the course. We are a married couple, we will have disagreements and they can get heated. What does it mean? I'm not afraid to have an argument because we are piecing. But I'm not going to pick fights over little stuff just to engage my wife. She said to me once, the arguments we do have show her how far we have come.
I think they are part of the learning process. I was never of the mind that not having arguments = a great marriage. I think the key is how you approached this disagreement. I think I've learned a few things regarding that.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
