She said it broke her heart to see our son hurting like this but she doesnt realize that she it the true architect to this dilemma.
These are her feelings, Not yours. Let her deal with her feeling the way she sees fit. It's not your job to fix her. Did she think about these feelings when she broke up a family?Don't buy into her drama. and that's what it is, HER DRAMA.
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If I dont go , this will reinforce her notion of me being a selfish prlck. She has villified me in the relationship so i am told by some mutual friends
NOT AT ALL! Again this is her issue not your. I see it has you standing up for yourself and the way you want to be treated. I think it's great to not worry about her feelings about you. You are setting a boundary here. You will not be treated this way.
Her actions have consequences. The WAW will rewrite history to their liking. They will see things in a different perspective so they can self validate their feeling of guilt knwing they broke up the family.
I'll stop here.
Don't worry about what she thinks if you don't go.
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