So H showed up here on Monday with his list of things he wants from the house, an agreement about kids , support and papers for divorce. I did not react as much as I thought I would have. When I asked H later what was his time frame for all of this, he says, whenever you wish I am in no hurry. I have gone over the list and stuff and at a first glance, it looks like he is trying to be so nice. But as I sat down and really went over the list of assests, his total exceeds anything I have. I have not discussed it with him yet, but I am sure there is a war on the horizon.
H is still planning on moving into his friends basement suite even after I voiced my concerns. His friend has quite the criminal record including arrson which he spent time in jail for. His friend had a fight with his uncle and as a result friend got angry and burnt the barn down. Even went as far as putting his dog in the car and placing car in the barn before burning it down. I told H that I am not comfortable with our kids staying there for any length of time. Definately not 50% of the time.
I know I can not control where he lives but I can control the safety and where abouts of my children. I did not want to have to get lawyers involved, but it is starting to look like I am going to have to.
I am not over reacting about this am I?
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007
