BIRTHDAY Party,NEED ADVICE

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I appreciate your thoughts mykarma.
IMO.
going to events like these only gives the chilren false hope that their mom and dad will be together.

IMO, it is better for the children in the long run.

My D6 still hs hope we'll be together. It's not going to happen.
That best thing you can do is assure them that BOTH mommy and Daddy love them very much and that everything will be OK.
Kids need to know they are safe.
That's the most important thing right now.


Also a friend of mine sister just got remarried, she brought to kids and he brought 3 kids into the new M.
They love having two parties, two christmas' two easters.

As long as they know they are loved , that's what matters.