Once a waw, always a waw ?

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MK, yes men and women both go thru the hurt of a WAS. Have you talked to a coach yet? This is exactly the type of situation that they can guide you with. You will have a much clear picture of what it is you need to do and what to expect. The posters here are correct, the relationship will change, but you want it to...so that you are battling the same issues again. I wish you the best.

Thanks Karen. Nope, planning on scheduling some soon. I guess whats ironical is that my wife left saying that she could not trust me to improve myself emotionally. But now when she did this, i am worried about trusting her again on not leaving our marriage again. But guess if i learn to trust myself on how effectively i can manage our marriage, this feeling might go down.