Once a waw, always a waw ?

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MK,

It all depends on YOU and what you feel, it you look at my sitch, I am actually on round 3 of WAW... Maybe I am being foolish to even try again, but, I know how good it got in between, and it keeps me going.. It is very much an individual thing, only you know how much you can stand and how much you can put up with. I can tell you from my own experience of being here multiple times, you get hardened to it (not necessarily a good thing, but reality) ..just a little.. but it still hurts, although this time.. I keep telling myself this is her "third strike", and now I am GAL, and really considering how much more I want to put into it, if it is going to repeat again.. Always remember, it is your choice in the end, nobody else can tell when. just my opinion

Man i really have lot of respect for your patience and strength of heart here. Yes you are right. when it does work, all the bad things that happened are quickly forgotten. Problem with me is that i am waay too attached emotionally to my wife. I guess once you go through detachment and DB through your life as others have said here, i guess you are prepared for whatever gets thrown your way.