boogie we talked a lil last night she said she can see ive changed but believes its cause im just scared of losing her. Im actually not scared or obsessed any longer. Then she says people dont just change like that that im still the same person. I ask her in closing to put the divorce on the dead docket for right now and she said what is that i said we put it on hold and see how things continue progressing she responded saying i dont know ill think about it
She is right people don't change overnight. That is why consistency is the key. Your actions will speak louder than your words. She is unsure and does not trust you yet, and that is ok. The fact that she is thinking about anything regarding the two of you is very good. My W has also said the "I don't know comment" to me. I guess it is better than a flat out no
