BIRTHDAY Party,NEED ADVICE

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I had the same experiance.
What your W and her family does for son's birthday is for them.
I did not attend when W asked me to go to S3 party.
I held my own party for him.
That's what you do.

Your W needs to realize, unfortunately, that this is the result of her decisions.

I decided I will not miss events that are achievements for my kids.
Last year D6 graduated from Pre-K class.
The kids put on a show for the parents.

Two months prior to the date, she asked me if I would go out to dinner with her P's and the kids.

I simple emailed her back that I already have plans. Which I did.

They chose not to stay for the kids.
We can't act as a family for the kids either.

This is reality.
gr8