Once a waw, always a waw ?

[LearningPatience]

Karma, you've touched upon one of my fears, the repeat WAW. We're both on 2nd M, so the odds are already against us. When W and I first met, before dating, she told me that she has problems with R. Red flag I know So far I think I'm the longest, or close to the longest R she's had.

I know that I contributed a lot to our current sitch, but I also feel sometimes that W would rather give up than fight for a R. My hope is that when (not if) we get back together we've both learned enough to be able to handle all the ^*^&^% life throws at us (and boy, it's thrown a lot at us so far!)

Would I go through this again? I really don't know. Probably, but you never know...