Once a waw, always a waw ?

[JustStunned]

I think this is a common fear among LBS. Certainly I have it.

This is why we DB. From others here I have come to believe DB’ing doesn’t stop if you reconcile. I have to accept the old R, the one W is running from is done. We have to choose to work on a new R.

We as LBS are doing what we can to better ourselves, to make ourselves whole for the next R. We hope that next new R is with the WAS, but we must accept it may not be, as both of us the LBS and WAS must chose to make it so. We cannot control what the WAS chooses to do now or later down this stony gnarly path.