......are these itty bitty baby steps?

[MHL]

GAG,

Been lurking a bit lately, nothing to add about the interaction with X-SIL, it was all very informative for you and gives you a better understanding of XH and his MLC.

Love what Mila said.....

helps you not to take it too personally when XH is not all smiles when you are together...you know that it's not you it's him.

The other thing to consider here is that we are all imperfect people and heck there are days(sometimes they run together) where we all are a little crabby.......doesn't mean it is neccessarily "MLC fog" or any other mental defect going on.

Glad to hear that the TT game is on this week!! You really are becoming a stable fixture in his life, someone he can count on, someone that supports him,
someone that offers friendship and understanding,
someone that accepts him,
someone that he is safe with,
someone that he enjoys spending time with,
someone that does not pressure him,
someone that shares common interests with him,

someone that still loves him.

I hope he realizes just how lucky he is......

I hope you guys have a great time tonight.......no advice for tonight other than.......

Have fun!!!! you deserve it!!

Cheers