harrier, that is so true. I'm beginning (slowly) to get to that place as well. I've had that exact same thing happen to me too - giving selflessly and then getting something in return.

I know it's just a matter of time right now and the only thing I can do to screw it up is to be impatient. That's what keeps me going.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE