Once a waw, always a waw ?

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Since i have more time nowadays with my WAW away, and talking to some friends and some family, i began to think.

Say WAS comes back to you after the supreme efforts you put into get your sitch on track. What's to say that the spouse will not leave again?

I know that there are no guarantees in life, but boy after all this hell to get your wayward spouse back, would you again wanna be on the same boat where spouse again leaves you?

Are we trying to get back our spouses because we know that the alternative: second marriages have a much higher divorce rates?

I am little worried that say even if my wife comes back and try try counseling, and hopefully say our marriage gets back on track. But say again W is upset about something that goes on in our life(hell this is life. There are always bumps). Whats to say that she might again just quit on me. I think i might just hang up the towel if it happens the second time around.

Just curious to see what people think here.