boogie we talked a lil last night she said she can see ive changed but believes its cause im just scared of losing her. Im actually not scared or obsessed any longer. Then she says people dont just change like that that im still the same person. I ask her in closing to put the divorce on the dead docket for right now and she said what is that i said we put it on hold and see how things continue progressing she responded saying i dont know ill think about it