Denver, IW and 2step, thanks! Appreciate all the feedback.
I think the important thing for me at this point is to not get overly excited. Yes, I think it was a positive step, but, I also have to realize that this hasn't changed her mind. She is still walking her path which does not include me as her H. I do however think this type of thing has to confuse her a bit. I think that is a good thing, peaking her doubts a bit about her choices.
I will continue a semi-dim approach going forward. I have to make sure I don't pressure to do anything like that again anytime soon, I think that would come off as pursing. If she brings it up great, otherwise...
Back to working on the things I CAN control, me! While I do that, I can monitor her actions and see if I got anywhere. Fun times!!!
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