John, like 2step I haven't been posting, but you need to listen to him. I know it's hard, but unless she specifically told you she wanted sex again this weekend or specifically told you there was OM, you can't assume those things. Even if she said them, remember not to believe half of what they say.
Deep breaths and do whatever you can to minimize expectations and mind reading. They do nothing but raise your blood pressure and anxiety.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
