Listen man. Every WAS puts on a brave front. It goes with the role of being the bomb dropper. Trust me they are in just as much anxiety and confusion as anyone else living a crisis mode. This is a crisis for them as well as all of us; remember that.

For my sitch, it turned out W was bound and determined to get out of the M. Once she makes it all legal, we'll see if that makes life any better for. No one can convince her that in the fog she's in, really nothing like that is the real answer to happiness. But she'll never find out until she goes thru it.

It may be a relief at first, but after she checks off a few items on her bucket list her eyes will probably begin to open. It may be too late by then; who knows? I'm not getting any younger, and I have my life to live.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."