Sparks, my W has also been dealing with the self-discovery issue like yours. The hardest part for us is that it's their self-discovery and we can't really do anything but watch and be supportive. We'll have to compare notes later smile

From my viewpoint it's looks like you are on the right track. Of course this track is the world's longest roller coaster and you've been fitted with blinders so that you can't see ahead. But at least you're on the track with the seat belt fastened!

You'll be alright, hang in there!


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011