Being the invite is the same evening he wants daughter over for the night is fine.
I think he has a fond memory of your family dinners back months ago and perhaps wants to re-create that atmosphere.
I think he wants you over and thought if daughter was there you would be more comfortable and inclined to accept.
I think he is not directly speaking/inviting to you, rather going through daughter, so it appears more casual.
Your H is once again testing the waters.
I hope you go.....
(((Hugs)))
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11