You ARE going to accept his dinner invite....right!!!
This is a big deal, this gives you the opportunity to show him your wonderful self.
He wants to do something nice for you AND with you on your birthday. It's not a quick stop for a gift and just dropping it off either. It's cooking for you and spending time with you. This is a different kind of gift.
IMO, the OW is gone.....
Your H is thinking about you.
This could be a turning point. Your birthday has perfect timing.
I am so interested in how you handle this invite.
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11