YR I am so sorry to hear of the turn of events with your marriage. You were and still are a success story. You gave so much hope and advice to others that you have no idea how much that helped us here.

My h did return and has been home almost a full year already. Boy does time fly. I do understand about not going through this again. I would feel the same way. It is extremely hard to go through this and then have them back and then to have the hurts open up all over again. Not fair and Not right!

It's unfortunate that some seem to never get it and are seeking that happiness elsewhere. They need to find that within themselves and realize what they were searching for was right in front of them all along, but maybe the only way they can find that is to experience it hence the divorce.

I hope you can find some peace with your situation and that you are stronger this time around. I know that if it happened to me again I would be able to handle anything now with class, grace, and strength. It's amazing what we really learn on this journey of life. Hugs! God Bless!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"