Yes I have been following your sitch which is why I thought it was odd that she is talking about maybe getting back, yet doesn't tell you where she's living.
IMO it's not the OM she's worried about. It's her. She doesn't "trust" you so she has her runaway hideout safely hidden in case she decides not to confront the things she's done.
You may be right. I still think that it is bc she is worried that IF thing don't work out where we work on M that I will 'spy' on her or try to confront OM if he ends up remaining in her life. I made the mistake of threatening him to her back in November and it scared her. But the bottom line is that she isn't ready to share that with me for whatever reason. Either way, I am willing to suck it up and be patient for now though.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
It's one thing if it were just the two of you, however since there is a child involved, you have a right to find out if the place she decides to put him in is safe. I'm not saying that you don't trust her to give you SS a safe environment to live in. I'm just saying that as the other parent, you need to find out for yourself.
Plus many WAS's are so caught up in the "fog", that they don't make rationale choices. Or convince themeselves of things that aren't true.
I think that your point is good Bond... But I don't have any real concerns about SS being in a safe place. I actually have a very good idea of where they live. My SS gave me the address back in December... I just haven't used it or let my W know that I know. It is in a very nice neighborhood about 5 minutes from my house.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
