LITB - Just read your entire thread. I have a couple of questions:

1) Are you still doing the uncontested D? You mentioned that when you found OM's messages that you told W that she would have to have you served... but you then make it sound like you helped her with the paperwork.

2) You don't really talk much about what you think your role in the breakdown of the M is/was... Have you thought about this? If so, what was your role? Why does your W think that you haven't taken care of her?

3) Where does OM live?

Country is right. 6 months is a long time and things can change in a hurry.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce