I think this is a great move for you FOBD. You were dark a long time, and by the sounds of it, it wasn't for nothing. Looks like it developed some positive changes with your W, and she contacted you first! I think at this point a good "dim" approach will work well now. Keep some contact going, but make sure it does not come across as pursuing. Tough balance sometimes, but you got it...

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