Sitting at home with myself.

[FellOnBlackDays]

Navy, you got some really nice feedback from the crew above, especially 2step. Please read over it and take some value from their posts. They are right. You need to remember something, this is still very new to her right now. You still have a long way to go before she can see through the forest she has lost herself in these days.

I think you saw some positive signs. She did not appreciate the advances from another man. She cried. She told you what was wrong. She expressed regret. She looked to you for advice and to console her. All very, very good things.

She could have gotten the dude's number, told you nothing about it, kept a poker face all night long, and told you to stay out of her business and her life. See how this could have gone worse??

You are doing fine. Listen, acknowledge, apologize, validate. Remember those four words every time to talk to her.

Keep us posted!

BITS never walk alone!!

FOBD