Good stuff man, you are making great progress. My big one that is in your list, I want a chance to really show her how sorry I am for the way I treated her. After the books I have read, this forum, and a lot of thinking in general, I think I really understand how I made her feel. I CONSTANTLY criticized. She felt like she wasn't worth a bucket of rocks by the time she left. I feel terrible about it...
Denver is right as well, don't lose sight of your personal goals. I think having both is a good plan, and balancing them is key.
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