Iw, you have a choice to make. You can show your wife the old you and you will get what is behind door #1. Or, you can start DBing and show your w the new, improved, more interesting you and you will get what is behind door #2. So, what is behind the doors, you might ask? Well, behind #1 is a divorce and your w permanently moving toward the arms of the OM. Behind door #2 is a limitless amount of possibilities that you can have some influence over... many of them probably involve a long and happy life with your W.

Which door will you choose???

BITS never walk alone!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...