Denver, you really are making all the right moves, my man. The trip to the mall was excellent. And, you pulled it off while the OM was babysitting. Dude, we are going to get you a giant, shiny brass championship belt to wear around soon.
OK, patience now as grr is right. She is really giving you all you can have right now. Don't sweat the address and don't sweat what you are not yet getting. You and I started here and I remember when you would have stepped over a dead body to have what you have now. And, don't forget, I am still standing that the starting line waiting for the permission to move forward... Besides, if you really wanted the address, I am sure your SS would give you that info. But, don't ask for it. Nothing good will come from that. If she were to catch you spying, it would destroy months of work.
I can't believe she is talking about a future together!!!! Awesome!
Keep the good news coming!
FOBD
Actually, SS has given me the address... think it was back in middle of December... but I haven't snooped. My issue is that despite all of the progress that I've made... W is still keeping it hidden from me... I know it's bc she's concerned about what I will do IF things don't work out the way that they are headed right now (reconciliation)...
And yes... any prodding or spying is not good for me now... not at all... I don't really feel that I need to anyway.
I like that championship belt idea!!! I'd wear it all of the time!!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce