I have a really, really good idea. That's number 1.

But mainly, I'm respecting her wishes... I have been since the day that she left... and I credit that for much of the progress that I've made.

I believe that I am very close here... I don't want to f it up by being impatient now. Not sure if you are caught up with my thread Bond... but W has been spending a lot of time with me and has told me that she is leaning towards working on M... that I am only in competition with my old self...

I am actually going on a trip with her in a couple of days. OM's days are numbered... and as it is, nothing is going on with them...

My W's main reason for hiding her address from me is that she is afraid that I will actually hurt this guy... I made an unfortunate mistake very early on in threatening him (to her) ... and it scared her.

I'm just being patient man... it [censored], and I have certainly had to swallow a lot of pride... but what I've been doing has been working...

focusing on the big picture

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce