Dixie, take a good look at grr's post. She is correct. He is acting like a child with his actions. He is "button pushing" and you are taking the bait. Remember, just electronic "noise." That is all that is.
I think you need to start working on a plan that will make him realize that you could be moving on. And you know what that plan is?? GAL!!! The more you GAL, the more you will discover about yourself and the world around you. Eventually, he will stop dominating your thoughts. Sweetheart, I miss my w more than anything in this world. I would take her back this instant. But, lately, I find that the more I do for me, the less she owns my thoughts. The less I think about her. I don't care for her any less, but the obsession over her return is starting to diminish. This is allowing me to think more clearly about me and what I need and want. This will, in the long run, make me more attractive to any woman... even my W possibly.
Please give it a try. For you and your sanity!!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
