Also (and this might sound harsh), don't put too much into the sex part. It wasn't a tender thing, it was a physical thing. While it's nice to know that she still sees you that way, it isn't a sign that she wants to come back. At least in my experience that's how it's been...
Me 34 H 37 M 12/97 H moved out 03/09 D 05/10 S 17 D 12 S 11