Not Sure Which Way to Go

[gr8 day 2B alive]

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I was just posting some very useful information I was able to obtain during my time here.

Also you seem very optimistic that this is headed in the right direction. Is there something that I am not seeing? I might need another 2x4 to the head.

As my W sat across from me last May while we were discussing the division of our assets she told me I was overly optomistic that we would get back together.
This was after I ask her do you want a D?
She did come back, although we failed at reconciling, I had the faith she would.

That's who I am, I have always been optomistic. I have friends who envy that about me.

I am currently working on D but I do believe she will come back again or at least hve regrets down the road.

I know better know, She has not change in a year and a half.

I don't want her back. I will not allow her to be in my life unless she gets the proper help she needs.
That's my boundary, Its for me.
I don't do crazy anymore. All her craziness ends with her because I don't allow it to affect me.

Bottom line is your W may/may not come back. IN a perfect scenario the two of you would work out your differences.

However it does take the work of two poeple who want to be in a R together to make it work.

Don't focus on her actions or words. it doesn't matter to you now.
you have a great life ahead you regardless if the women wants to be with you.

Dbing is about saving yourself. Learning about yourself and grow as an individual.

Have you ever watch the the Survivor?
It's like that.
Sometimes things don't appear as they are.
And the only constant element is change.

gr8