It seems like the only reason he talks to me anymore is to disapprove of the way I handle the kids... tonight it was about me not knowing that our youngest had a science report due yesterday. I'm not sure how I was supposed to know that if he was going to do it with H's dad... He tried telling me that he told me his dad would be out of town, but realized that the conversation never took place after trying to prove that it had. All I did was tell him that I didn't know and going forward I would double check with him. In the past I would have gotten angry and gone through great lengths to prove myself right. Now I just admit where I went wrong and tell him what I'll do in the future to correct it. I have no clue if it makes any impression on him at all, but at least I feel ok about it.
Good times...
Me 34 H 37 M 12/97 H moved out 03/09 D 05/10 S 17 D 12 S 11
