Started working on the 180's yesterday and started working on becoming a happier me for my own sake.
Well, I admire you for that. I believe the hard part will be to stay focused on that goal and don't get distracted by what your H or OW may do.
I do agree with SandyCay about protecting yourself from STD. I have read from posters right here on this board that got it sleeping with their unfaithful S.
You thought it was rather twisted if your H were to think he was being unfaithful to OW if he slept with you, but when I was in an EA I would not even let my H see me undressing.....much less allow him to touch me! Twisted? You bet! But don't think it's a joke for a second. There is a reason he isn't having sex with you....but it's not b/c of "you"....it's b/c of the A.
So, what all do you have planned this week toward GAL? What will you do over the weekend that will be wonderful for you?
P.S. Watching movies with H doesn't count. In fact, doing anything with H doesn't count.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
