You guys have any ideas on the best way to approach this? Gucci thinks that I should man-up and not beat around the bush.

I will admit that I want to stand strong on this issue but also don't want her to see an old me that would strong arm financial matters.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated