Rolling with the punches

[Redo]

Update...

I replied to W's email in the morning that i would be attending daughter's ceremony.
W replied asking if i'd like to hang out with daughter after the ceremony, at her parent's place or take her to the Zoo.

Yea, i'd love to take daughter to the Zoo after the ceremony. But would it too much if i told my W "You are welcome to hang out with us if you'd like" ?

Knowing that the zoo might take about 2-3 hours, I am wondering that even if she accepts, would we slip into to old reminiscing and R talk. One one hand i'd love to spend some time with W too (it has been 2 months now since she left). On the other if i dont invite her, would it be telling her that since she has made the D decision, there are some fun stuff in life that she would be missing out.

Any feedback ?