Of COURSE you bring up the $1900 and all money issues.
Stop being so weak and wishy washy. It is probably part of the reason she isn't attracted to you. Women don't respond to weak and wishy washy men and men who seem scared of them...
Bring it up confidently and be firm. No doubt she may get upset or mad. So be it. You are on the verge of letting her walk on you. You know what they call a person who allows themselves to get walked on don't you?
Time to start getting some backbone and a little male toughness.
Standing strong will earn her respect. Right now she doesn't really respect you because you are allowing her to dictate most all things because you are too scared to come across as strong and tough. Don't let her fool you.
I feel you, gucci. Man I really do. With our history of me not allowing my W on equal ground during financial decisions, I don't want this top set her off as another place that I have not changed, when I have been concentrating on 180s so intently.
So in your opinion, just provide the facts and tell her this is how it is going to be. Since you made this decision, you will have to support yourself?
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
