Were you planning on bringing up the finances during therapy? If so, I probably wouldn't go into the details w/ C, maybe just get some general advice on how to discuss the issue fairly and calmly w/ W.

I hope the financial discussions go well. If you already think she might be receptive, concentrate on those feelings. PMA and validation will make the discussion so much easier for both.


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011