LP - I just got caught up on your sitch. Everything to me sounds pretty positive. I would die to sleep in the same bed with my wife right now. I would love for her to tell me that she loves me.

Man. Keep up[ the good work.

I think you stepping back and giving her space will work in your case. It almost sounds like your W does not want to let you go.

What has helped me the most in my sitch has been three main strategies.

180s, GAL, and detach

Not saying that all will apply to you, but the wouldn't hurt at this time, especially with you moving out right now. Show her the most positive you imaginable.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated