Hopefully one day a light bulb will go off, and you will realize you can be an island. You can be a rock. You can be an immovable and completely independent object (use whatever metaphor you please).
What I mean is, it will no longer matter what anyone else is projecting, your sense of self is so strong, your boundaries so defined, as to not be negatively affected emotionally by anyone.
Validate your parents opinions. You do not need to agree with them. Do not be affected by your parents. It is time to be your own island, instead of just one in their chain.
Do not just sit around feeling bad, waiting for them to leave. This is an opportunity to practise what you are learning here.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
