First off, why do you need her to cut your hair? Get it cut by someone else. Show her little by little that you don't need to rely on her. In fact, get it cut in a cool stylish way that is different than the way she would.
YOu have to start making yourself stand out from the OM. The hair cutting issue is a small one, but it shows her that you will not be modeled by her, even lookwise.
Start by being your own man like the OM is. Let her re-discover you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.