Yes I know the "he's just a friend" line is BS when referring to someone you spend hours a week talking to on the phone. When confronted about the phone use in Oct. my W didn't apoligize and basically used her unhappiness with the M as an excuse to justify it. When I stated that her actions were hurting the M and would be a roadblock to us making things better she said she wasn't sure things between us could ever get better. This is the same night she dropped the ILYBINILA bomb. I spent the next few months making all the typical mistakes (pursuing, trying to plan date nights, etc.) and go nowhere. In January I discovered this forum and got a copy of DB. I'm not trying to follow the GAL and 180 guidelines as best as I can.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
