MLC always involve affair(s)?

[meganna]

Hi, I am new here and this is my first post. I will post my entire sitch later, but right now I am wondering is it possible for a MLC to happen without an affair?

Also, how does a mom with 2 young kids GAL? I need suggestions that don't involve me leaving my kids home alone with H too often (he still lives at home). I love my kids to death and want to spend as much time as possible with them, and don't feel H pays enough attention to them.


Me-35
H-36
M-7
T-9
Kids- D2,D4
Bomb- 1/21/11
Still lives at home, deciding if he wants to work on us or not, very confused