Not Sure Which Way to Go

[downandoutintn]

So your W calls you up next week and want's to talk R....
What do you do?

The first thing I am going to do is listen to what she has to say and listen some more and reaffirm where needed.

I have been through this before and I too jumped in too quickly. I will not make the same mistake twice.

I will push back because I am hesitant to get back into this. I would say something to the effect of I am not sure as to which way I want to go with this. There is 2 sides of this for me. I will need some time to think about this and what I want to do.